understanding...

....reminds me of a song "understanding" off b2K's debut album...

how much is too much?? how far is to far??? does it mean anything?? maybe im overreacting??? when u love someone how understanding should u really?? well not sooo understanding that u're being walked on, messed around on, or even Cheated on :-(

being understanding does NOT equal being naive....it just means that both u and your partner on on the same page with things....

but what if your not??? what if what u think is one thing and he thinks another??/ well get it together... its what being in a relationship entails...being open...honest....COMMUNICATING...and not being deceptive or LYING! (cuz that's even worse...)

i've settled in my mind that what goes on in the dark will be revealed in the light...

so dont be oblivious...TRUST him...never let him question your trust... (it hurts and doesnt feel go0d), becuase without trust u have NOTHING....

just a thought......

absence???

....they say it makes the heart grow fonder...im a believer of that...
sometimes it can be heartwrenching though to hear words like, "im leaving", "this place isnt doing anything for me"....
sometimes you just have to be understanding to the fact that you gotta do what you gotta do...
all in all it makes me that much better of a person.. stronger of a person.. much wiser of a person...but when you love him its hard sometimes...saying goodbye or see ya later...HURTS... you cry when u miss him.. but after the tears you know its still a while before you reuinite...
but im here and i aint going nowhere.. even from miles and miles away....the lOve will always BE...you and me will always be you and me.....
i love u.

~amor vincit omnia~

History: The Latin phrase “Amor Vincit Omnia” translates as “love conquers all,” a motto known to all English Literature students as the one engraved on the brooch worn by the Prioress in Chaucer’s Canterbury Tales. The full quote from the Roman poet Virgil’s Ecologues X, 69 dated to 38BC is “Omnia Vincit Amor et nos cedamus amori” or, “love conquers all; let us too, yield to love!” Genuine, Museum --------------------------------------------------------------------♥

simple actually. love conquers all....

nobody said it would be easy..but we gotta do what we gotta do..put on our best foot and step forward. :-)

im so in love with this guy.i cant get enough...its more than his beautiful chocolate skin.or the way his lips softly press against mine.its more than his swag.that ladies/fellaz cant get enough of.its more than his hot body.(mmmm mmm good!!!) and so much more than the way he looks into my eyes and i know the love is mutual...

its the times when i dont do the things i should've.or the incidents when i could've done somethin different. its the times when i get a little crazy and need to be put back on track..its the time when faith.committment.trust.and everything that makes up a relationship is tested....those are the times..

but inspite of.. u know what?? he still loves me.. and not becuase of the way that i dress. my big brown eyes.. not even my cute little booty or the way i rub him all the way to sleep.. but just the times when we have to re-evaluate and simply tighten things up a little...

I LOVE HIM....and im not letting him go for anyone/anything.....

guess musiq soulchild was writing a song for me on the low...."teachme"/// cuz i'M mos definitely being taught....its not always easy but its worth every second.......

kisses to u... u know who u are.

FiRsT laDi obama??

OK...so let me just start off by saying that michelle obama is pretty cool in my book...

on the View today, the re-ran the segment with michelle obama... i missed it the first time, but i'm so glad that i got to catch it this time... she's super cool. i mean she's so down-to-earth..and has great composure for someone who quite possibly could be our next first lady. i thought it was especially cute when she started off the show by joking about the famous "hand bump" she gave to her husband the night he clinched the democratic presidential nomination. she gave credit to her senator obama's young campaign workers and coined it the "new high five"....

i loved how she strayed away from talking so much about her views on policy and her own law career, but described herself as a mother and a wife... it was a sort of realness to her that i embraced.. and (can totally get with)...LOL

the ladies even talked about pantyhose and mrs. obama mentioned she stopped wearing them a long time ago...she showed a warmer, personable side even go as far to say she cooks bacon for breakfast. :-) ...often compared to jackie kennedy for her youthfulness and sense of style, her personality was reflected as very approachable and kindhearted....

i loved this.....she's a great role model..

im anxious to see what the future holds for her and her family (wink ;-0)